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A year and a half ago, my mom\u2014also, my best friend with whom I shared pretty everything growing up \u2014 left this world.<\/span><\/p>\n

In the final month of her life, I stayed by her side. But even after she was gone, my mind is still trapped in her room, unable to move on. There are no more moments of grocery shopping with her, no more texts or calls from her. I missed her. Emotions always come suddenly, overwhelmingly. They fill the air, heavy, intense, and sharp.<\/span><\/p>\n

For a long while, I wept like a child, releasing my grief, only to be consumed by it. Looking back, I am so thankful for my wife. In those days, she gently reminded me to count God\u2019s blessings. She was right.<\/span><\/p>\n

Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation. (Psalm 42:5)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

When I reminded myself to rise above my sorrow and reflect on God\u2019s grace, He led my heart to a place of peace. Yes, so many of my memories with my mom are intertwined with God.<\/span><\/p>\n

I remembered when I was a little kid, my mom held my hand and led me by her side every Sunday morning to worship at church; she taught me to read the Bible, to pray; she used the wisdom of God\u2019s words to teach me how to live and how to love; when I came to LA for school, she reminded me to stay connected to a local church. She feared God, and in her love for Him, she passed on the gospel to me, teaching me to revere God, to treasure the salvation of Jesus Christ, and to hold onto it with all my heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

In her final days, when she had difficulty with speech, my mom still found the strength to pray, surrendering herself to God. I knelt beside her bed, with my dad, and we sang “Jesus, Friend of Sinners” and “Amazing Grace”.<\/span><\/p>\n

Through the final month of her life, my father and I were with her. I am thankful to God.<\/span><\/p>\n

For God so loved the world, that he gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life. (John 3:16)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Yes, my mom is no longer here in my daily life. But because of the salvation of Jesus Christ and her steadfast faith in God, there is an eternal hope that keeps us connected. One day, we will be freed from death. And on that day, we will return to our Heavenly Home, see the Lord face to face, and once again be reunited with my mom. The separation I feel on earth is only temporary.<\/span><\/p>\n

One night a few months ago, I found myself missing my mom so much. This time, I thought of how both she and I had received His salvation, and I was filled with the hope of the eternity we will share with Him. For the first time in a long while, my tears were no longer tears of pain or sorrow, but of gratitude and living hope in God.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life is short, and even without sickness, there comes a day when we must part. And then what?<\/span><\/p>\n

The salvation of Jesus is precious, and yet, it is freely given. A gift beyond measure, waiting to be received. Will you seek to understand its depth? Though it may not be easy, will you continue to try and share this gift with your loved ones?<\/span><\/p>\n

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